Bye Bye Adek and Mas!
My brother and new wife are now boarding the flight back to Ireland.
Is it ok if I vent a bit here? I know you don't know me, but if you do, hope you don't judge, just take it as a "luahan" ok.
And this is merely a luahan perasaan yang most probably will be over the next time you blink. Biasa lah family... Apa orang kata- tersemput. This time it's me.
Last night my entire family had dinner. Without us. We were supposed to have a family dinner with the bride and groom- to get to know the new addition of the family. I dah tersemput dah sikit before that because after the doa selamat, no one came over or called us to ask whether we are ok, ke, need help ke, hantar carpet etc etc. Terus senyap. Mom and dad pun tak jenguk. Sebok I think.
So I was looking forward to this family dinner. Thursday night tak leh sebab depa pi PD - so Friday night lah. Uncle Sabu kata, jom pi Kelana Jaya. Hello...we are in KL on Friday Night and hari Hujan - sure jam nak mati kalau pi Kelana. So I said tak yah lah makan Kelana Jaya ...We hung about in KL in case they wanted to come for dinner here. I was thinking somewhere nice lah, in Pavillion ke, Changkat Raja Chulan ke , Hilton ke.. You can see what kind of dinner I wanted lah kan... But until 7 my brother still tak tau where to go. Kejap kejap suggest mee mamak lah, sea food lah. Ok gak tu.
Aleh aleh I dengar, his wife tak boleh join sebab kena dinner with her father. Eh? Apa ke point to the dinner then? Tak nak ke dinner with your new family?? Father dia pun kan dah jumpa before they nikah?? So the plan was my brother dinner with his family while the wife dinner with her family. I suggested combined, tak leh ke?? After all, dah berbesan pun...and you are married apahal dinner separate separate ni...But the answer was tak boleh, sebab her father nak her to himself. I terus jadi keciwa dan a litle fedup. Dan amatt lah jauh hati . I ni bab dinner dinner and family ni jangan main...so I pun dah tawar hati lah orang kata...Malas dah nak arrange apa apa. Macam lah kita ni hard up sangat. Woit I dah arrange a kenduri walaupun tak diminta (ungkit ek?? tak baik tol..), takkan lah dinner pun I gak kena kejar orang punya time??
Anyway I said to mom, whats happening. Mom said Adek is sending his wife back then mom and dad had to go pick him up for dinner.I said tak yah lah then , after all, my in laws were home pun, and my husband (a) tak tidor semalam and (b) has a talk to prepare for this Sunday. I spoke to my brother and I said, lepas you all makan, come over lah, or we can go to mapleh or something. If come over I can bring tandurike, satay ke etc. Sebenarnye I tak ingat WHAT exactly I said, sebab I was busy being hurt lah. Adek kata ok. Adek kata they came back too short a time and cannot please everyone. Ok lah I tak leh marah lah dengan adek I ni.
The night passed. We went home. What was happening?? NO one called us pun? I called gak my brother Saiful and his wife. Dua dua did not pick up the phone. Called Dad. Tak Jawab. Last - last found out that they were having dinner nearby. ALL OF THEM. AIK??Cannot call me or what?? So I said come over lah to the house for a drink. Apa ni makan without kaklong? Kalau tak, sikit sikit Kaklong and Epi, tiba tiba bab makan, diaaaaam je. (ok ok dengar je lah ok now you know how mengada ngada I really am.)
Then they called to say that they could not come as too late.
This morning I called them to say bye bye. To find out the entire family is at the airport. Siap Intan, Pol and Yana pun ada etc etc. Tak da siapa lah yang nak beritau.Im not part of the family or what??
Do you think Im being unreasonable? Yah, most probably I am. Takkan nak kena jemput ek? After all, had I wanted to go send him off I could have. Not really as I did not want to leave my mom in law and my dad in law at home alone. Dahlah maid tak da for 2 days.
I spoke to bride and groom at the airport , said bye bye and they all pun apologised .Agaknye risau sebab earlier I called my dad and dah siap nangis nangis- keciknye hati and punye lah sebak..But dengan depa I ok je..Biarle, they were going back and after all they are just children..I sorang je lah bodoh .....orang tak tau pun that I was so excited to have a nice POSH dinner and I would have appreciated it if the bride and bridegroom arranged it themselves and I took it as a major SNUB that the dinner tak jadi..hehehehehe
My husband said that my new SIL is just a baby...she tak tau her kakak ipar (only kakak ipar ok) is so kerek. Primadonna.
And my father pulak merajuk as he said I should have gone over to the house last night . Eh??? How I know where you are??
Phew! Glad I shared that with the PUBLIC secara tak malunya.....
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