Soo anyway ..I just had lunch with this guy called NK. He is a policy maker, think tank and is a name in shipping and maritime policies. I first met the guy when we (old firm) had me MC a shipping seminar. I was with my pearls and suit and long coloured hair . He asked me out for lunch one day and asked me to chair another session on shipping.
He is hilarious. A serious father of 5 , he is totally bawdy and witty. The poor guy had a heart attack when he met me this year with my tudung and my glasses. For a long time he would be quiet but then now and then he would text me to say lets have lunch. After about 5 times saying of No im busy, I finally said yes.
Of course lah I asked my husband woit...semana witty orang pun , lagi witty husband saya..dan lagi handsome husband saya..and I asked him eh do you mind if I have lunch with NK? And he said nope.
I said ok..bagus lah you! Tapi kan you, you tak boleh tau.... double standard, I know. Tapi its ok, takda orang ndak kat I.
You think he really is cool with it? I asked him, are you ok that I work with H? He said ok! Are you ok if I go for lunch with so and so? Ok! Aiks - semua ok nih! My daughter tak approve dia approve.
My daughter is very jealous. She's going to say TAKDALAH MUMMY if she reads this but I think she doesn't think it's right if I catch a lift with a guy for eg. Habis macamana , mummy malas bawak kereta dan ndak jadi diva. How? :)
Anyway apa apa pun we have to preserve own integrity, and our husband's good name. Ie tak leh lah sosial sangat sampai tahap s0o sial . Jadi isteri yang mithali..kiri kanan tanya husband
Ok then back to work!