This is a "membukapekongdidada"(revealing your defects!) post...heheheh
But I'm sure a lot of people can relate and do go through this from time to time, right...so what's wrong with sharing..
here goes..my problem right now is......
Eh gelak pulak..betol lahhh Waaarghh!
My mom pantang (forbid!) us from saying ever that we have no money. because she said that everything is a prayer...so if we keep saying we have no money, that will happen. So say, not enough yet......
I'm sure we all go through this right?? Normally you'd be happily surviving, and then some months- WHAMMO, you are just counting the days till the next pay check comes. This can come due to stuff like cars breaking down, or in my case, paying the contractor a humongous chunk for painting my house. Paying school. Paying to change locks for whole house. And paying the tv man a huge chunk for fridge, tv and new airconds. And also getting new furniture for the kids' rooms - Yeah yeah, all this totally could wait and did NOT have to be bought when we did but we got carried away I guess. OK OK I got carried away...hehehehehe ..And of course some funds that were supposed to come in did not come in, which DID not help, and of course me lending his money to people who convinced me they realllyyyyy needed it , did not help also hehehe..Plus how come I need to pay everyone NOW?
I think this is a good reminder to us. Since his new job I have taken some things for granted...like fancy restaurants, kids' activities, holidays etc. Alhamdulillah for his extra income..but perhaps God wants to remind me to appreciate it more and cut down on wastage like stays in hotels (which you guys know I love right, I should be Paris Hilton the way I love hotels haha) ....so when all of a sudden I cannot, padan lah muka, it makes me realise that MONEY is FINITE! And enough is enough ! hehehe Allahswt gives us this moment where we have to sit and stay still and reflect...perhaps this is payback for something? Or perhaps this is because I poohpoohed my dad when he said I really did NOT need to get the extra telly? heheheh .(it was a good idea at the time...my BNI friend kan kerje kedai TV....)
it's a good lesson, and I am grateful God that you still love me enough to test me. But God, I am having a dinner party tomorrow! And my inlaws are coming too! And this weekend there will be 3 families in my household I think..erks...challenge challenge..
TAKPA! We shall face it! And remember this ! Grit your teeth!! And raid your kids' tabung! (KIDDING!!) And stop spending! And start saving!
Alhamdulillah..Mamasita reminded me...we have so much when others don't...but this is lah what I mean..kadangkadang what you have tu, is not blessed by God so it doesnt stay...it goes as soon as it comes in...betol tak??
Sorry lar, memalukan ke? Maybe I will delete this post later.
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