You know, a close friend once wondered how I can still be so bothered about wanting to see the other half, lah apa lah, so possessive lah apalah, wherever he goes i want to follow lah, he is not allowed to talk to another human female lah ..non human pun a bit dodgy...still want to send him food to the hospital lah....send him flowers during anniversary lah...apparently its not normal...hmmmm you mean you don't do that meh? (or- doesn't everyone do that?)
I must admit I do get rather disgustingly excited to see the other half, and I do call him like a gazillion times. (okay lah, three times) The other day I told him, that someone told me, that he must be SO irritated ....so I should stop calling him for a whole week ok? and you know what he said ?? No, don't stop calling me-- and before you can go awwww...he continued- because sometimes you rescue me from boring meetings! - ada ke??
I guess after you have been married, it ain't easy to maintain that Im so in lurve with you glow that you had when you first went out. I guess it can be a struggle to view the other half romantically when he happily breaks wind before you (anyone crossed that barrier?) or when he shares your bathroom and its NOT a mills and boon moment - hehehe!(Orang cakap dengan I lar hehe) Someone just told me that her marriage has no romance - POOFT! Her other half is NOT paying any attention! I told her to take a holiday ! Maybe you have arrived at IntheRut land. But maybe sometimes its the girl who loses interest? when the husband ignores you like that ...it's a 2 way street surely!
In our set up, there's no 2 way street. It's more a roundabout! I keep chasing him! Just kidding! No, actually we are a couple of big kids if you catch us at our household. We're bad parents I'm sure. My daughter no 4 told me off for not turning off the tv ok, she said "Mummy, you are wasting electricity! How much lah the electric bill will be?" And I looked at her shocked and asked her- "Mak? is that you in there?"
Ahahahahahhahaha! *(best kan ada blog- sendiri buat joke, sendiri gelak) - point being I have now successfully raised adults to take care of the parents.
Husband's aunt and uncle visited recently-- they are who I want to be! They travel the world together..never fight, and actually have real conversations! I want that! especially the travel round the world part!
So, keep that feeling people! Leaving you with this song - reminds me of when tengah angau.
He he! Goodnite guys!