I'm feeling a LOT better. Stayed home and got most of my work done. Told the work partner about how the other half is suddenly playing "Me Tarzan You Jane" on me...and we had a heart to heart about my working at the firm given that he is doing all that, and we figured out that since the other half is now getting a lot busier with his university hospital and shouldering a lot more responsibility , being the only malay surgeon in the Uni that hasn't fully left and still faithfully teaching etc...so he probably just want the comfort of having his wife at home, being there for the kids, cooking homecooked meals for him...etc... Basically I do want to continue work, except I dont want to JUST do law and I do want to have some time to pursue my other interest, which includes conducting a thorough study on Korean life....ahem....which I have abandoned actually for a long time because I was too bz doing other stuff....anyway yes.
Must work right.(??).penat je belajar bak kata arwah atok I all those years I was a stay at home mom....but can I choose the files? Husband said no need to go in to office at all but karang boring lak... Work is fun (although clients can be %^*@) Partner and I get along, which is very strange because personality wise we are NIGHT and DAY. (Im the day) He he...but we are now more like siblings as well as friends in the sense that I can pau money of him for cabs and vice versa and I do get mad and yell at him and tell him I think he's SUPER KIASU and then I am ok . ..(although he never noticed ???!!) I suppose we have known each other and each other's families for sooo long that it really does feel like we are family. But kedekutnya dia dengan kids dia...tinggal kat rumah I kejap terus nak ambik..camana adek beradek cam ni aahhh. .
And I've managed to get on top of work somehow..I guess less distraction and more discipline..I have to thank BNI for that...they are a great bunch and seing how they are focused and motivated to get more business in turn motivates ME. I got up at 4 this morning for the 6 am meeting and the energy was buzzing at the meeting . I want to quit all the time cause its the easiest thing to do but I know being around people who are disciplined is good for LAZYBUM like me. .
Anyway we have decided that I will cometo work as soon as the kids go to school and come back by 2. And then cook dinner for my kids and hubby. Like hubs has been hinting of late (who cooked tonight you or the maid? He asked and I shd say, for the first time ever) - So today I came home after meeting (with Partner's wife KG pulak) Anyway came home early and started to cook and now my face is hot as I have wiped my face with my hands forgetting that I actually was pounding chiillies earlier..I have bunged a pot of lamb in the microwave with potatoes and tomatoes and ginger and carrots , I have made my very colourful sotong broccoli mushroom stirfry and I have made a very hot sambal terung hijau (hence my face !!!) - So there. Now I am off to fetch my daughter from her tuition. I feel like SUCH a good mom. How long I can sustain this god knows....hihihihih
And of course...I have to check that writing for newspaper angle ...it would be a DREAM come true.
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