Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Getting attacked!

1. My blog is getting attacked by spam! yikes! I get email telling me Ms Anonymous is trying to sell me viagra etc! Kalau betol takpa lah gak ! hehehehehe


2. Gaza attacked...aishhhh kesiann and what is frustrating is the argument of "right to defend itself" that Israel and its supporters are using..hey! if you keep bullying someone and then that someone kick your shin, you do NOT get to bash him senseless under the guise of "defending yourself"! Tak cukup lagi ke dapat state free? 

3. attacked at work...clients oh clients...let's leave it at that. let's leave it at me wanting to leave practice . Do I need this negativity??  Anyway yes wish I have other people to pass the bullllll to he he

4. attacking the fatcells- ok i have finally signed up with a gym called Concept 10- 10...the thing that sold me finally was (a) no sweating allowed and (b) it is close to publika! and (c)   only 20 minutes! Let's see ok. I ni disiplin punya department, very weak one. But it's just to tone muscles right and hopefully the fat will know what to do when that happens

5. Attacking the housework..I surrendered you allllll...i got a maid! This lady agent was referred to me , I called her, she said she  needs this much (RM6k) which is very very cheap considering the current trends, and I was sufficiently harrassed by housework that I PAID!  Husband could not pay  fast enough..I was not smiling, I was always grumpy, there was NO romen romen - how dare you ! and I was very holier than thou (don't you dare take those shoes in on my lovely clean floors young man!). And my very very good luck, there was a 38 year old lady whose employer changed his mind as he was leaving for the USA and I was given this lady. Maybe  a total lie, I know, but me not going to ask. I felt very very lucky when this lady came home with me and she has taken to my house and housework, silently and efficiently and I hope hope hope that this is going to work out! she has a handphone, she wants to go back once a year, and she has worked here before. let's get that out in the open and we shall do fine. Come on guys...I was not going to work and my first thoughts upon waking up were: nak basuh baju/ BAJU tak kering! 

Although my kids and I have learnt a very important lesson..take ownership of the house..this is our house and not the maids...and therefore dont leave everything to them. Bilik buat sendiri, pinggan basuh sendiri...know your house, act like the owner and hopefullly no one will bring boyfriend to house...I hope .....

Byeee!

Monday, November 19, 2012

Update update!

Dah seminggu dah tak update???!

Actually it wasn't that I didn't have anything to post..it was that every time I wanted to say something it would be about the maid or not having  a maid and that was boring ME what more you out there..right?? Although I have to tell you that my neighbour Dato A just decided to tell me that sebenarnye he wanted to tell me a MONTH ago how my maid had introduced men to his demure cambodian maid and she got so lovesick that he had to send her back. He knew about my maid and HER boyfriend ok! Even got the guy on CCTV and suspected him of breaking in. Gee Datok thanks...I said Datok if you are reporting to the police I will support you 1000% and he said hastily- oh no no no, the cops have other things to worry about...which made me (and later, hubbs when I told him) think- eh?? Datok ni ada apa kat rumah dia ni takut polis datang?? hehehehehe

Anyway yes life is ok..I was grumbling all the time...ye lah kerja rumah never ends..nampak sikit kan?- basuh baju, kemas sikit sikit., masak. Kan? Apa kecoh.? After all the cleaner comes twice a week-  tapi kan kerja rumah tu ALL THE BLARDIE TIME!! basuh baju ,pas tu basuh lagi! Wash cups and then get dirty again! Things get spilled (Milo especially) and etc so yes..mummy has been grumpy..! 

So grumpy that on Wednesday malam, I checked us (sans husband) into Berjaya Times Hotel. In response to the constant request..can we go to Cosmoworld? can we go to Cosmoworld? My kids don't demand , they "remind" . ALL THE TIME. So they wore me down and I said OKAY LAH! I booked us a superior room (1 double bed, a sofa bed and then I ordered another extra bed) and we went after isyak...husband came from hospital serdang reallllly late (1am!) adn then marah cause I didn't open the hotel room door (tertidor lah beb) ...he was grumbling why lah I go into hotel...and I told him- need it! And the next day he left like really early, promising to come back at 11. The kids went swimming until it rained....and when daddy came back they all got ready to go to CW....unfortunately daddy dah TIDO berdengkur! So I let them all go by themselves and we went down to meet them. Oi bebudak....seronoknya mummy tak ikut ye...depa naik macam macam rides yang memanglah mummy akan BAN!! Space attack la apa lah..by the time they all came out (at 3pm) dah hijau or what the omputeh say- green around the gills!! Hehehehe In the meantime sementara tunggu depa ni, kita orang tua dok lah kat luar...makan laksa, and then pekena ARCHERY satu round..hehehehe I was just happy that hubby was around! and awake! It was getting ridiculous! Although...it didn't last long..at about 3 we went home in separate cars..daddy went to the hospital again...semoga Allah swt memberkati penat lelah nya....teruk tol kerja..takkan sampai cam tu nak avoid buang sampah kot?? hehehehehehe

Anyway Friday comes...mom and dad came over...nak masak for me katanye (I LAB YOU MUM) but then I dah "ter" masak lah...labu masak lemak (my fave!) ayam goreng sayur kangkung bodoh..masalah nye labu masak lemak tu my fave alone...yang lain takusek...hihi..

My parents reallyy superstar lah...i lah orang yang paling bertuah...dapat mempergunakan eh! Meminta tolong...daripada my parents..sebab on Saturday we had to go to wedding cousin husband in Kangar! As husband has gazillion important patients he could not stay overnight and therefore I was tasked to buy flight tickets to Alorsetaq and for the 2 of us..my parents said oklah you can dump your kids with us ..and anyway the kids need a break as by Friday depa dah tak tahan kena kerah buat kergheja. Sooo on Friday malam buta pukul 1 am kot..we sent the kids to Opah...and then went home at 2am..and terbabas alarm clock at 5 am...mandi, pack (baru nak pack!) dah 5.30 am baru lah keluar....

which is ok except our Airasia flight was at 7 am..which meant we have to be there at least 6.40 am...which is STILL NO Peroblem lah since pakai highway..pecut je what..apa susah...UNFORTUNATELY Allahswt maha mengetahui-- it rained cats and dogs and horse and sheep and apa lagi lah! Sampai tak nampak depan! Speed limit about 70 km kot! We reachedquite early gak lah kat nilai etc area tu...and I said to husband when I saw sign for terminal LCCT- turn left here. Then entah macam mana, I yang teralert  ni, tertido. And when I bukak mata...he was at KLIA!! Aiya! I said eh?? boleh pergi Airasia ye from  here/ (dalam mamai bodoh) ..heheheh..marah ler member tapi apa nak buat..orang dah kata..sampai hari ni we don't know how it was that he went to KLIA.. 

Anyway sampai LCCT..nak park lagi (tulah orang kata naik teksi)...and then I rushed (in the suddenly heavy rain) and got to the counter..depa kata ...(cuba teka)...sorry gate is closed! 

I dah tawakal dah sebenarnye you..all in God's hand..ada lah reason tu,,dengan bangun lambat nye..dengan hujan lebat tak pasal pasal....

Husband wanted to insist with the Airasia counter people..memanglah kalau you dapat masuk pun..bukan depa terbang pun at 7 am...apa lah air asia nih..berkira betol..kalau international flight i paham lah..ni just to Alorsetaq! But they remained firm,,gate is close and your money is forfeited teehee! 

So now what?? MAS? Flight at 2pm- miss wedding nanti. Firefly? What will happen to the car? Park at Subang then flight back at LCCT? In the end-  drive....! 

And when he fell asleep I took the wheel and if I take the wheel you are talking 170 km ler...berapaaa lah kena saman ni....

Anyway the wedding was good....Seri Malaysia Kangar..cantik!! Couple pun cantik kan...small but meaningful. We were telling all about how we rushed to the wedding and ada cousin husband dengan baik hatinye mengoffer kan driver dia to take the car home, so that we just take the return portion home..tapi in the end we tak take up the offer because (1) seganlah nyusahkan orang (lain daripada mak bapak adek beradek) and (2) mehlah kita jalan!~ This was the perfect op for us to go dating! 

Actually it wouldn't be so actually...takda lah sangat nak "pak toh" ...kesian gak kat kids and mom and dad..but then I tengok I had to drive daripada kangar....other half dah ngantuk sakan ..and he slept all the way .it was as if now that he wasn't at the hospital he was ok to zonk out...and I know we couldn't  drive on to KL macam tu..I pulak mata bengong kalau malam....


So it was that we detoured to Penang....got a room at Golden Sands...although I knew it was going to be for a very very short time since someone had booked to operate  at 12 the next day..which means check out at 5 am lah tu..but NEVER MIND! Hotel is still hotel!! buffet! room  service! bed that I dont have to make! coffee and tea facility! rain shower!~ Yay! 

By the time check in dah 9 pm..terus makan..I went up first cause husband nak mengenjoy dengan buffet ..ya lah dia dah tido all the way dah sampai segaq lah no ...(eh jadi orang utagha lak kita) ..Biaq pi lah....kita nak mandi...so I naik mandi pas tu BOOM!! 

Esoknya makan buffet ..i ingat ada orang tu nak rush lah kan..tengok tengok dia dah  make arrangements and in the end we left at 12~! Alhamdulillah takda emergency from hospital (otherwise I hantar gi airport je lah) and alhamdulillah weather was brilliant...I rasa lepas ni dah recharge dah him AND me..takda dah grumpy grumpy dah....

ohh rupanye macam tu ye...buat housework penat penat- pi holiday! Weii mahal lah cam tu! hihihihih. ambik maid lagi murah! 

Anway let me just say thank you soo much to mom and dad..and brothers who took the kids back to kampung and bought satay etc etc...love you love you and you know I'd do the same for you if only you abandon your kids like us..hehehehe we are BAD Parents...tsk tsk

sekian ta ta!!

Monday, November 12, 2012

getting into the groove

I am a happy bunny today!!

Sorry lah girls...moaning and groaning macam diva manja...(memang pun)..it's a LOT BETTER NOW


Okay..update. That was posted when my cleaner was here. I was sooo happy that SOMEONE ELSE was doing the work ! This filipina muslim convert arrived when I wasn't at  home, kids opened the door and half an hour later Nadine called me (as I was driving home) to whisper- mummy she is sooo gooood!! I came home to find her mopping my kitchen vigorously, having done the living room..she went up to clear the rooms and toilets, and even the maid's room! Her mouth tak berenti bising about how filthy the old maid was. 

The cleaner said I was too kind to my ex-maid.. which is a nice way to say what a tip your house is! The ex maid memang never clean "properly"  and longgok saja stuff, periuk, plastik what have you -and me and family also macam tak kesah because like we don't know any better and anyway it looks clean ..except once she went back I saw how messy it was (maybe I ni kena jampi? naah i think I just malas je) 

Those who have maids probably know what I'm talking about ...you tend to relax because you know you have delegated the job to someone else. it is a lovely feeling and the reason why people keep taking on maids, to be able to order people about....but even so i should have been more alert. Husband said, kena lah ada maid, we have to have one, because we need someone at home, to throw rubbish, open doors, sweep, hang clothes while we sleep on.......I told him housewives do that all the time you know..if you want me to do can, I charge about 12,000 (one more zero than Philipina maid which I heard cost RM1,200 per month) Hehehe..he said the problem with me as a maid is I nag him to help! 

I love my kids..they are soo helpful..although helping is not automatic to them..having been pampered for so long..even johan has manned up and cleaned the old toys . 
Sara was caught watching drama when mummy was mopping the porch with jif and all and hence got called to help.. !. Nadine's friends are also here...they came to spend the night..last night was McD for 10 kids in my house...and hubby came home by 11.30 pm and he already ate (thank god cause no nasi at home at ALL because beras dah habis). Actually I went to send Nadine for tution at 8.30 pm and then went to the supermarket to buy grocery tapi ended up sleeping in the car ....too tired...and by the time I woke up, decided against going out to buy anything...not bothered . 

Chores are more organised now...I'm happy that our (suddenly too big) house has been mopped and swept clean. I'm throwing away hangers etc. I have donated the baju lama lama yang berkepok dalam almari to Kluang and some to Adni for them to distribute there. 

I have mopped and brushed our porch tepi kiri and kanan and depan, and washed three loads and dah kering pun, it was so hot. Actually once in a while this housework malarkey is good therapy! Rasa berpeluh, pinggang macam nak patah..and I cooked lunch in the middle of it too- ikan masak asam and rendang daging sans santan. (sedap lah jugak)...and I washed the ABSOLUTELY Filthy fridge! Yang kat luar lah, yang kat dalam nanti lah kau...(ada dua sebab satu was the last owner which is too darn big for me to get rid of and it still works so ok lah)

Oh yeah I need to wear gloves...now hand dah kasar..

Oh yeah also when I was hanging out clothses to dry I notice some of the kids need new undies...so tua and fraying and ada yang putus putus ikat balik..alah cian..mummy neglecting you ye.

SO! memang lah like you say - ada blessing in disguise...we get to know household stuff again..and get closer..and like someone said..the kids can start learning how to do housework! 

Sekian report saya


Saturday, November 10, 2012

Slap me please- the diva is moaning.

Hi there ..selamat cuti sekolah everyone...my kids have started their holidays although I think they probably are just realising that this time around they won't be enjoying it as much ahaks!

Baru 3rd day without maid kan, and allready I dah stress with the other half. Pep talk me please. On the rational side I understand his work is suddenly very busy, his colleague is off and he has to do all hell's type of on call and he had to do emergency operations etc ...my rational brain understands and sympathise. KEciannn baby I...(uwek, say my kids)

My non rational diva however wanted to say  - Haa?? Why you come back late one?? Every day 9 pm one..somemore dont want me to buy outside food want me to cook, who's going to help me clear the maid's room and buang her mattress? Trash who wants to take out?? Waaaaaa!! I dont care about in patients they can reschedule!!  How come you come home and tidor and next day go again..help lah this is not ahotel lar

Ok . sorry. 

I ter cakap this morning to him, although I had sworn not to. I mean, I AM sorry that he is working so hard but honey, so am I! Plus I have to work my normal office work too! It seems like I am making all the adjustments in this - work halfday lah and do all the housework lah, you normal je? 

Or..maybe that was the point?? For me to just be the housewife and superwoman so that he can work with a peace of mind? Sorry, this has never been our style ..we have always been partners .but maybe this is what he expects now, his little woman at home? ( dont mind being at home part, just mind doing the housework part) When I moan moan he said - Sayang! It's only HOUSEWORK Lah! 

Ha ha ha ni  yang nak gelak ni..housework lah yang banyak and ongoing. Plus I have made it difficult for myself. I have to start afresh with new stuff because I have thrown the old pots and pans and the decrepit cutting board and I am on a rampage to throw out whatever I don't need that I have been asking maid to clear but of course she didn't . Also I have been on a rampage to get rid of  house of the cat pee smell. This on top of the normal Menyapu of living room, kitchen, living room 2 bla bla, basuh baju - yah i can go send laundry but with 7 in the house its too much and too rapidlah dia jadi bukit baju, tak sempat nak lipat dah ada satu batch lain, so its faster if I wash sendiri...ha ha 

Again, I tell people all the time..I go to work to rest! Full time Mom with NO maid has my highest respect..I am determined to NOT have a maid..but penat woi!! 

How DO the full time housewives do it? Maybe close one eye? Maybe I will learn not to mind that the rubbish is not sent out? Hubs said biar je lah kat tepi dapur tu.. Dia too busy lah..tapi kan, if you biar then the cat cakar..so I should send it out je lah kan?? but i want him to help..but I guess .this is no longer the time when we were in the UK when he could help me vacuum while I tend to other things..now he is busy..but what annoys me is that..neither am I that full time housewife I was then..now I have work and this week is especially harrowing..so at least share my mental if not physical burden kan. 


I think this is all teething problems je...I need to find a system. I will not expect the other half to help. because if I do, and he doesn't nanti I tension. So I will try to organise the skip myself. And try not to moan. GRR. 

Aiyoo now I smell cat wee again. Wargh.. Kids tak bangun tidor lagi.. They have been helping , esp Nadine but how much can I ask her, with her sitting for SPM. and I gave Nadine my keys so that they can let themselves in from school if Im not there..and they did and guess what, yesterday I came home and found everything unlocked and open even the gate. Aiyoo. And the freezer was switched off. Aiyoo..Dangerous to leave the kiddoes for now.  

Sigh..thank you for listening to me..I am going to lipat kain now..but..is it unreasonable to expect the other half to help? Or shall I just shut up and get on with it? 

Byeee

Wednesday, November 07, 2012

yay yay!Sudah free...!

I'm freeeeeeee!!!

Maid has gone for evahhh!!

husband and i sent her half way then husband got a beep beep call from hospital so left me and her by the roadside to take cab (sweetheart waited till i was in the cab though to go so that's sweet) and then we both went to the airport and I checked her in and spoke in a pseudo Indon slang and the lady at the check out counter pun speak indon dengan i SEKALIK Tengok!!! Dua dua melayu malaysia laaa hahahahahaaha, dia ingat I Indon , I ingat dia indon keh keh..

Anyway I dah periksa dah bag dia...takda lah apa...baju je...although baju nye kecikk sangat...bagi toyol pakai ke?? I can only fit in my ARM.

Pas tu I took herfor lunch however she said she did not want any. 

So I sent her to departure. This lady knows what to do man..she gave passport and went down (KLIA ok) and then walked to the immigration place..tak lah termanggu manggu at all...

I told her I owe her about RM550 (I kurangkan deduction seksa I tu to only one month salary) and the ticket is cheaper than I thought (DAMN YOU LIONAIR) anyyyyway...I gave her RM200 in Indon rupiah and she had Rm100 in her handbag

Cukupler tu kan..I pulak worry whether cukup or not ..and whether she has someone at home to fetch her...she said she needs to call someone which number is in the phone I confiscated ..i said it's with the cops..I think it's in the office....I think lar

Anyway she told me she met this salman guy when she was about to come to malaysia..apa apa laaaa ...

then I had a lovely time trying to find how to get a cab back...rupanye kena turun level 3, pi teksi counter and then ambik coupon...then queue baru naik...perghak tol

Sampai je rumah the first thing I saw was the daun daun at the porch and it never bothered me before but this time I was like- I HAVE TO CLEAN THAT NOW!!

And I masuk rumah and I immediately saw all the stuff I have to clean NOW. (walhal masa ada maid tak kesah pun)

And then neighbour recommended her cleaner so I went over to talk to this very very chatty muslim philipina and she agreed to come twice a week..

only thing is...my neighbour's mansion is so nice...while mine is so semak

so I have to clear so many things before she comes!

And now Im cooking spagboll-spaghetti bolognaise...bung it in the oven

and doing a list for my kids as in chores..

They are all sitting upstairs..tak kesah pun mami ni nak masak..hik hik

we are going to be so great! Looking forward to clearing my house yay! 

(injury report: burnt my finger allready on the hot pot hoo hoo)

Maid (postscript)

Today i go to klia send princess

i have gone to the immigration place at the new Syariah court in Jln Duta and paid penalty  of rm100.00 

there was  no parking and i drove around for about 3 rounds 

it was blazing hot

and i had to queue

3 times

and imagine when i turned around. saw her sitting down next to another maid, chatting and  smiling happily

i called her to stand in line with me. got no shame ah. got no sense of menyusahkan orang ka

and today she is flying back

she is so happy. the bf is at home now

i told her -- i dont mind the bf part. i dont mind her going off part..i hated the lying. and she has lost RM8,400.0o which she could have made in a year

stupid girl. 

and im charging her for transport and penalty and her flight ticket and etc etc...she  has no salary left except for 200.00

i wanted to send to agent for  him to send, but husband and friends think i should send her myself. agent might keep her here and recycle. 

heeeee........

Sunday, November 04, 2012

FULL VERSION of the maid story

Well. I missed my Japanese class. 

because I had to report my maid's allegation of rape

backtrack....

for my fb friends you probably saw my updates

before our Perth trip mom and dad helped send her to do her fomema thingy as her permit had expired and I had to extend it . Actually she had asked to send her back before that, citing her dad wanting the title of the house, which only she has, but she has to go back personally to give it, because she had buried the title somewhere on the land. 

Ok? 

After I rolled on the floor laughing, I said no, anyway your permit had expired so I have to renew that before you can even think about going back, or going out. at all. 

Delay delay procrastinate procrastinate tengok tengok dah expire by 22nd. October. 


Panic and sent her to my auntie's clinic. 

Back from Perth auntie called. By the way can I bring her in, her test is positive. Not ujian bahasa malaysia, but pregnancy test

I was still ok- because auntie said it might be false positive, ye lah, they have so many samples kan. 

I told her -in a lighthearted manner - eh I have to bring you tau..because you may have a baybeee....(smiling  the idiot that I was) 

I thought she was going to go - hah? how on earth did THAT happen? 

But instead! she crumpled to the floor and said I wanted to tell you something...2 months ago...this man came in and he wanted to kill me! he held a knife at my throat! 
It happened during eve of eid, when the whole family went off to Kluang-- she was sent home by my brother (remember, my mom had a pre-eid kenduri and borrowed her for a few hours) . Anyway she wasn't making sense and I was like- huh?? ohkay....so orang came into the house..but then why didnt you tell me? 2 monthss ago?? she said she was scared of me. 

Ha ha ha! 

Anyway i couldn't sit there and I went off for a meeting. when i came back I sat her down and obviously she had more time to figure out her karangan. I absolutely did not believe her of course but was interested to see how she was going to tie everything together . 


So: 

She got dropped off. She came in and found door unlocked. She went in, wanted to have a bath, took off her clothes, decided not to, cause she felt uneasy. SUDDENLY a man came out of her bathroom (adjoining) and put hand over mouth, and also held her hand and also held a knife (3 handed, of course) and then pushed her to the tv room, and then I asked her-- how come did not go upstairs?? because, she had struggled and together they struggled back to her room (im actually fighting the urge to giggle now) and then she lost consciousness cause ada fragrant smell...from his mouth ...and then she got up in the morning with her pants off (but later told the cops her undies were on) and then she did housework as normal and did not tell me because she was scared of me. FOR TWO MONTHS. 

Now. 

Several things: 

She alleged she was ahem attacked on raya eve. I was away only for one day (due to hubby being on call) and came home on first day jugak (malam I think). The next day (2nd Hari raya) found out from neighbour that he got burgled. Asked my maid about it, she said she didn't see cause she was upstairs. Then she said oh yah she saw a man walking up and down behind the neighbour's house bla bla

Now, why didn't she tell me- oh by the way, your house ALSO got burgled last night?? hah?? And I got attacked ? hah??? If not for the burglary next door I would not have asked her specific question about whether the house was locked etc..but I did and she said everything was ok and did NOT tell me about the "rape"

Secondly...if you were attacked, surely you'd be traumatised . Instead...you are ok


Thirdly..she had gone off to do her urut - she asked to go with next door neighbour 's maid cause her back was aching. Then she came back and said the lady told her she needed 3 treatment and there was a pain that moved around her body like an egg

She did actually tell me she was having back pain ..in all those time she never mentioned hey! it could be because two months ago I was attacked..bla bla..mouth got smoke coming out..woke up no pants...bla bla=- kan??  There I was thinking of giving her a scope. Kalau betul lah ..she would have said kan...

Anyway-- i listened to advice to go get a police report done, as she may well accuse the other half of being the culprit. or my brother. so off I went. and she stuck to her story. the police kat station melawati took it down and told me to go to the sexual crimes unit in taman dagang..then i went to see this lady, Inspektor Masnirawati, and she interviewed her without me...for a longg time..she was softspoken and Im sorry to report there was no violence used. Apa lah!! Where is all that police brutality that I hear about?? hah?? 

Anyway Inspektor tu said she is still sticking to the story, so she has to go to hospital to get chcked out. Tomorrow morning I would have to go to the HOspital Ampang, she said. But tonight she would come to the house, she said, to take pictures of her room etc. 

On the way back (several hours later) i was yelling at her. My maid. I told her if what you are saying is true, how dare you not tell me that my house was burgled. My house was burgled and I have 4 daughters..who the blinking heck cares about YOU but my house was actually broken into and you never thought to TELL Me? (kalau betol lah kan).W hat if he came back?? you didn't think of the other maids around the area?? what if he came in and raped THEM? 

Anyway she made that no expression face that I swear will make the DALAI LAMA hit her. I said you told the police you ada pacar ye ..She said yes but never met him. Dont know who he is or what he looks like. Huh??  

Lagi FENIN (headache) kepala dengar cerita mengarut dia., baik kita diam je.I told her, I will pursue this rapist thing, the entire neighbourhood now will have to be told that a rapist came  so everyone can be on alert. You think its just about you? And of course I have to tell the next door neighbour as he might be very interested since the guy could be the same guy. Well, maid , you said you were raped, I have to follow through. this is a serious crime. Mom and family came over and then the cops came after dinner and by this time, she was a bit ashen. I left the cops to take the pics ..and closed the door to the kitchen where they were. Dad said not to disturb the investigation.

Suddenly the Inspector called me in. She had confessed. She had her bf come in to the house AFTER my brother dropped her (btw saiful AND HIS entire family dropped her off I am very relieved to hear) .she did not hear the bell she said she did not know how he came in. The photographer, a man, told her...of course you know..how can he come...you must have told him to come. She said no, all of a sudden he came in allready. ahahahah! The photographer asked her again, she finally said he rang , and she opened the gate. ARGH..but she said she never asked him to come. And I said you never asked him to LEAVE either did you???arghhh you know I would KILL you if you do this and you went ahead anyway??

Anyway...the cops found a hand phone (that maid had sworn she did not have kan) and gave it tome . they told me to do a "covering" report and I went off to  the 3rd police station of the day, Huluklang (tadi melawati, then ampang) and they were waiting for me...and they had a good laugh at the report it seems (apparently all reports made in m'wati and h 'klang are tied and in system) and they wondered what would be the ending.. I had to request for more patrol in my report

and today..i told her i want her to clean everything up etc etc and dont think you can just b**ger off and get yourself pregnant and then ask to go home and I have to be the one checking for your ticket etc etc..grrrr. I want to yell all the time . 

Anyway i also said I dont know when to get her ticket. (see earlier post)

She is trying to make a joke wiht me just now. (Seriously muka tak malu) - I am now stone face and I could not look at her and I said in her bahasa sasak  kamu lenge! (you are disgusting) - 

So that's the end...I hope!

maid oh maid (I hope final instalment of the saga)

I'm torn between sending the Maid  home now now now, or make her wait until I get a replacement maid. 

I'm torn between wanting to HAVE a replacement maid, or go without. 

No maid means I would at this moment be having to go bring the clothes in because of the rain.

And I can't exactly leave kids alone in the house. 

I would probably be ironing at the mo (cause with 7 ppl in the house the laundry can be horrible) 

The goodpoint is:

1. I can break her room up for the new enlarged kitchen
2 I can use the RM10000 (NO KIDDING) fee that Eddy agent charge to get a new maid, for a holiday
3. I can also save up to RM700 (new salary from now , I was told) a month and buy something nice 

4. I dont have to worry about having someone have SEX in my house with her boyfriend

That last point is clinching it for me. I think I'm leaning towards having NO MAID. 


Winter Sonata sure is different at 49 years old!

Believe it or not I am rewatching Winter Sonata.. ee geram betul I dengan si Yujin tu lah... she really was a wutz wasn't she? and...