OOH! Forgot to tell you. Nadine asked a question at dinner just now.
The mother of a boy, who is going out with Nadine's friend (call X) , has just asked X whether she wants to marry her son.
both hubs and i said NOOOOOOO
I said- can he take care of her? is the reason, to prevent sin? If so, are they so uncontrollable that they will definitely commit sin, if not getting married?
Husband : They are too young.
Actually when I was in Form 5 there was this girl who dropped out...she got married to her bf..ostensibly because the bf's grandad requested at his deathbed..could be because she was pregnant..who knows. I hope she's still happy and married now.
In my batch pun ada a few couples yang kawin during college (but not as young as SPM lah) ...ada yang kekal..some make it..some don't! Some yang kenal since 16 then when go to Uni..ok lagi..and then come back and work...then discover you want different things...
I joked...if i had my way I would have married your dad a lot earlier nadine..but he knew he was going to be stuck for life with me..so he tried to make it as late as possible ha ha ha..(actually he was waiting for enough money but to me- who needs money to get married?hehe)
To say don't get married, what about our grandparents who married really young? 17 would be considered over the hill during their time. *(yes but it's not their time now etc etc)
But I donno what to tell this girl (who i suspect i know who) ....get married is fine..just...Not yet.
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